it is 30 years since my son died and I have to say that I am now only realising that the pain never goes away, I always believed that time heals but it doesn't it only allows you to learn to live with it, My heart is with you and I understand

It has been nearly 20 years on the 20th of December since I lost you darling but never a day goes by when I dont think about you. I miss you as much now as I did then that feeling will never go you will always be with me and your brothers and your first nephew Kieran I think sometimes he sees you cos he always asks Richard if you can come and play with him again I would love to think this was true I love you with all my heart and I will see you again one day love you much son mummy xx

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